I spent my time as part nerd (Valedictorian + International Science Fair competitor + Most Likely to Succeed) and part athlete (varsity tennis, volleyball, basketball, track, and cross country)
Life goal was ALWAYS to be a mom and provide the best life I could for my future kids…probably inspired by my own committed parents
Avid Hokie (if you don’t know, Google it!)
Studied Industrial & Systems Engineering at Virginia Tech
Met my husband in Facilities Layout Planning (see, I’m trained at organizing!). He grew up in the DC-metro, but spent his summers in Colombia in his mom’s family’s small village of Tuluá
Started a 16-year career as a management consultant specializing in behavior change
Mastered creating my personal “life management system” so that I could spend more time doing what I loved (and less of what I didn’t!)
Continued to feverishly travel because it fuels my heart even when it drains my free-time tank. Went to Casablanca, Doha, Bangalore, Istanbul and Bangkok on my own. In addition to many US cities, my boys have gotten to explore St. John, Punta Cana, London, Copenhagen, Malmo, and northern Germany
The most important thing you need to know is that you are doing a good job. The fact that you are reading this tells me that you give everything you have every day for your family, friends, and employer. You are selfless and resilient.
I understand that the journey of a working mother can often be filled with guilt and self-doubt. You may wonder if you're giving enough to your children or if you're excelling in your career. Please remember that it's okay to have these doubts; they are a testament to your love and concern for your family's well-being. But also remember that you are doing your best, and your best is always enough.
In conclusion, working momma, you are a hero in every sense of the word. Your love, your hard work, and your dedication are changing the world one day at a time. I hope you find strength and encouragement in these words and know that you are not alone on this journey.
We stand together, united in the beautiful, complex tapestry of motherhood and career.